My guest today is author Mina Vaughn who writes kinky, amusing tales of vampires, rock stars, magic and New England! Being a resident of New England, with a penchant for steamy romance I am partial to her books!
How to Be on Top
By Mina Vaughn
You do not, I repeat, do not have to be a Domme to be on top.
Yes, my books are about women who happen to be formal Dommes, but each of them starts off with the simple impulse to be in charge.
If you have the slightest inkling you’d like to try something new for yourself, read on, friend. It’s doable, it’s easy, and it’s fun. You just have to start simply.
For instance, in How to Punish Your Playboy, Veronika has no idea what to do, other than act like she’s in charge. So that’s step one, act as if you are the boss. If you set a precedent that you’re going to get what you want, in a sexy and non-nagging way, chances are you are going to be calling the shots. A simple “take that off” sets the tone nicely. 😉
You can always punish by withholding instead of punishing in any traditional BDSM kind of form. No need for crops when all you need to do is keep your bra on. Does he deserve for you to take it off? Make him earn each thing he wants, whether it’s a kiss or something more. You have what he wants…use it!
Lastly, make sure you reward when it’s due. This will make him want to come back for more of whatever it is you want. If you’re at this point, it sounds like you’re having a good time, so make sure that once you’ve got what you need, he gets handsomely rewarded. It’s more fun when you work for something you want, and even better when you get something more than you expected. If he was a good boy, show some love.
See? No need for restraints, ad-hoc spatula paddles or even candle wax. Take a page or two out of Veronika Kane’s handbook when you read How to Punish Your Playboy. You won’t be disappointed!
HOW TO PUNISH YOUR PLAYBOY, Mina Vaughn’s saucy and funny domination romance, in which pin-up model Veronika Kane meets sexy, arrogant Aston Delano and decides to teach this playboy a lesson he’ll never forget.
When Veronika Kane hears that she’s up for Miss Pin Up Las Vegas, she auctions off her classic hot-rod and decides to head out west. But when the man who bought her car, hot restaurateur Aston Delano, asks her to “show him the ropes,” his not-so-innocent question takes them down a surprising, sexy road. And as they travel cross-country as Domme/sub, their chemistry sizzles—as do the luscious meals Aston creates.
Torn between the rediscovered pleasure of food and worry about staying in competition shape, Mistress Veronika unexpectedly finds herself as much a pupil as a teacher. Throw in long-distance trouble from her ex and from Aston’s family, and it’s a potential recipe for disaster. A road trip can be hard on any relationship—will this drive them apart, or will they buckle in for the long haul?
Mina Vaughn is an international woman of mystery and a shoe whore with a heart of gold. When she’s not writing her unique brand of silly smut, she’s plundering Sephora for any pin-up girl makeup she can find. HOW TO PUNISH YOUR PLAYBOY is her third book in a series featuring dominant heroines.
Pocket Star | 280 pages | ISBN 9781476770246 | April 2015 | List Price $1.99